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One of the challenges which we face with ourselves and with others is in finding the way to be in charge. Being in charge and leading in anything we do makes the experience different. Those who lead differ from those who follow since their way of seeing things and the result they get is different. It is important to remember that in order to succeed in leading the others, one must succeed in leading him/her self. Read more…

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Three things, which are connected to each other, are Pain, Suffering, and Fear. One of the things, which our mind is great in making us live with, is Fear. Usually a certain experience affects us. Once we fail in something we feel a kind of pain that we live in for a while.
Some of us continue to live with pain and turn it into suffering which never ends. Suffering becomes a part of these people’s life and never ends. The overreaction results in destroying the life of the person, which is suffering until he or she loses hope in everything. Read more…

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One of the things which our mind enjoys doing for us is to keep reminding us that what happened in the past would happen again. Failure and Painful experiences are remembered by the mind more than anything else. The results which we get from the past become the information which the mind uses in order to deal with the present challenges.

This procedure takes place in everything which we live: relationships, making decisions, taking risks, and going forward in life. Our mind keeps on telling us that the best thing which we need to do once we need help in deciding anything is to get back to the past and see what the result of Read more…

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Life is a collection of challenges which we face in our way to achieve what we want. Many tried to study the way humans behave in order to find out the reason which stands behind our actions. Sometimes we fail and sometimes we succeed but most of us do not care to know what exactly made us succeed in one time and fail in another. Read more…

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Freedom and independence are two things which we all seek and want. Once one’s freedom is taken he or she would start a natural reaction to regain it in any way possible. Life and the system which we put for ourselves are two major sources for losing what we call freedom. The freedom which I am talking about is different from what you know…it’s the freedom of our own mind. Read more…

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One of the most amazing things which we do in life is the way we think and the things which interest us. Everyday we find ourselves busy thinking about our life, the way we want to live, our dreams, needs, and many other things. Some of us are not satisfied by only thinking of the usual things we do everyday. Larger things such as the reason we exist and the search for ways to achieve what we dream of are subjects which we think of. Read more…

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Self Control is an action which we usually consider a gift that someone can have in order to succeed in life. Although it seems to be a great way which can be used to deal with conflicts and arguments, self control could also become a wrong way of expressing what one’s personality is. Imagine that you are in a middle of an argument with another one who is trying to show you as a weak person and tries to show your weakness in front of others who are watching you and him discussing a certain matter. Read more…

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Most of us are afraid to travel back into the past and think of bad things that happened to us. We prefer to move on and forget every memory which would remind us of something which happened and we did not want very much. We feel that if we go back into these memories we would lose control and live in a world which we do not want to be in. Read more…

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Ego is one thing which affects our life and decisions. Many people would prefer to keep on trying alone to do something although they know that they lack information and the skills needed to achieve this thing. Our Ego tries to convince us that we can do anything without any help because we simply know everything and of course we are the best. Therefore, we may not accept someone’s help because we do not want him or her to be better than us. Read more…

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In order to prevent chaos, humans tried to set rules for life. We are taught that rules are for our benefit and to prevent us from harming ourselves and others. However, the real challenge is finding a way to use laws and rules for our benefit instead of making them obstacles in our way to do whatever we want to do. Read more…

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Time is very important for us since most of what we do in our life depends on it. After attending several seminars which Tony Robbins held and reading some of what he introduces to us about time, stress, and the way we live, I thought of writing something about it.
“Stress is an ignorant state. It believes that everything is an emergency. Read more…

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In this article I will discuss two matters; the question of who we are and the relation we create between ourselves and others. Starting with the question of which we really are it sounded interesting for me to sit and have an honest discussion with myself about the truth of who I am and the things which I believe in. Read more…

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Life is a journey which we all go through it but we differ from each other in the way we look at it. Some enjoy it while others feel that they are suffering in it. We all start from the same place then our free will decides where to go and how to reach our target.
The culture and system that we learn since childhood navigate us in our way to the target that we put for ourselves. Some people choose to build their own way instead on depending on what others left for us. Read more…

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In order to succeed in what you do, you need to believe in it. Having the ability to believe that you can achieve a certain thing will invest in accomplishing what you want. Humans need a goal to work for and without it; they will feel that life is without meaning. Even a millionaire, who feels that he got everything he wants will one day that he lacks something. Life is a challenge and without participating in it, the feeling of victory and achievement will never be felt. Read more…

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Inspiration is the beginning of any achievement or work. Humans differ from each other in their interest. However, many of those who achieved in their life were inspired by people from the past. Some succeeded in creating new achievements which were inspired in a way or another by greater works. Poets for example are always influenced by masters who wrote before them. Read more…

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