Lessons in Leadership XX – Essence and Certainty

December 23rd, 2009 > Ziad Khalil Abu Zayyad

One of the most amazing things which we do in life is the way we think and the things which interest us. Everyday we find ourselves busy thinking Lessons in Leadership XX – Essence and Certainty 121  320x240 life coaching logo about our life, the way we want to live, our dreams, needs, and many other things. Some of us are not satisfied by only thinking of the usual things we do everyday. Larger things such as the reason we exist and the search for ways to achieve what we dream of are subjects which we think of.

One difference between a leader and a follower is the way each of them control his or her mind and which way is used as a method to analyze life and come out with the wanted result. You must focus on what you want to achieve in order to succeed. The subject of your goal is not important but the way you act in order to achieve it is important. For example imagine that you work hard to achieve something in your life but you make sure to feel joy while on your way..this joy can become a kind of energy which will feed your soul and give you what you need to keep on moving.

Many of us surrender after failure and there are others who keep on trying and failing but believe that through their failure they can find knowledge too. No one became a successful man who achieved what he really wants without failing and facing obstacles in the way to success. Learning is never real without understanding what failure really feels like. The most important thing is to know how to deal with failure, the way to move forward after it, and what to learn from it.

With time you can become an expert and know how to pass through the whole process faster than before. Once you become an expert, you will be using failures in order to learn and once you learn enough you will become a successful man who learned a lot from the whole process of what we call failure.

Our problem could be in the way we translate what we learned in our earlier life. The environment affects us and the identification which our mind gives to things such as obsession, failure, confusion, success, fame, allowed, and forbidden. If we could re-identify these expressions in our mind and learn new ways of dealing with such matters, our life will change.

The process needs a lot of energy an effort but brings great results which can change one’s life completely. Not only that dreams would become a reality, but our daily life would change into a great new experience. One can start by building a new relation with himself. We are busy that we sometimes forget asking ourselves about who we really are or what we really want to achieve or what kind of life we really want.

Remembering who you were before becoming affected by the adventures which you went through in life will remind you of your essence and what you wanted to achieve. Once you become acknowledged of what you want to do, you will find certainty. This certainty is different from any other since its source exists inside you. Use your certainty and the discovery of which you are as motives to move yourself into the best which you can do in order to achieve not only what you want but what you can also give to the world and people around you.

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