Sometimes it seems to be difficult for us to describe what the word love means. Most of us have passed through such an experience and felt what love could mean…you don’t know how you fall, when it begins and whether it would stay forever or end at a specific moment. [singlepic id=83 w=320 h=240 float=right]The most important thing which we definitely know is that once we know what love brings we become addicted to it. Even though we know that love could sometimes mean a compromise, a sacrifice, a complete change, and a will to accept the other as she or he is we cannot live without it.

Usually we try to convince ourselves that we can control our feelings to try to focus on anything else except of falling but we realize again that we could fall in love again with all these blocks which we put for ourselves. Our nature implies on us to find a soul mate in order to feel that we are living. The reason could be that we want to be like the others or it may simply be another need which is important in our life.

Although love is something which lights our eyes, hearts and minds, not all of us have the ability to express it. Some of us have the skill to express their feelings in words, a smile, or even a look. Others may find it hard to express what they feel although they may be totally in love. Actually what is important in love is what you expect from the other and what you are ready to give in exchange. The whole story could begin with magical effects, a complete love, and a true will to change for the sake of the other. However, things may change with time and here comes the question which is whether love could last forever or may lose its effect with time.

Some say that a crazy couple who is totally in love will find out with time that things change and the meaning of love may change with time. Others believe that a true love could last forever. I did meet a couple which was eighty years old once in Australia. They looked as if they just found each other although they have been living under the same roof for more than sixty years. To be fair I must say that I met other couples who were together only for a few years and seemed to be waiting for the day when they will get rid of each other. Both couples began with a true love but continued differently.

The secret is not about the way of choosing your partner because everything could change if you did not know how to protect love. It is extremely important that both sides should be feeling the same in order to make sure that you are really living a love story. This does not mean that you will always meet someone who will be ready to love you with no effort. Sometimes you need to prove your feelings and love in order to attract your beloved. If you were in love with someone and your relation turned to be serious then suddenly something changed you still have a chance to regain what is lost..Only if you deserve it. You deserve it only if you prove that you are capable of regaining what you lost in any way possible. However. It is good to remember that sometimes you need to move on if the same voice which used to tell you that you loved someone tells you to move forward.

You don’t need a plan in order to protect your love and relation because you can simply use love as a motive. Never forget to express your love and remember that good things in love come with other things which you may find not easy; sacrifice, a serious change in everything you used to do, trust, and commitment. Some may say that it is better to stay outside but remember that anything good and attractive as love needs hard working.
Feelings and emotions can never be controlled and none of us is immune against love. Sometimes you may not get what you want but you need to continue in your journey if you trust yourself; to stay in the middle is the worst which you can do.
As for you my gentlemen friends it is important to study Eve in order to know how to communicate with her. Things which we may consider completely not important could mean everything for her. Therefore make sure to know how to act by noticing what she demands from you in every move she makes.

Remember that nothing is priceless:
“She’s beautiful, and therefore to be woo’d She is a woman, therefore to be won” William Shakespeare

Ziad Khalil Abu Zayyad

A Palestinian-Arab living in East Jerusalem, Ziad graduated from College Des Freres in Jerusalem in 2003. Ziad finished his major in International Relations and English Literature from the Hebrew University of Jerusalem, Ziad is a former President of the Watan student movement at the university. He is interested in Middle Eastern political issues and the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. Founder of the Middle East Post and MEL (Middle East Future Leadership Network), he represents Palestinian youth at several international conferences.

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