Lessons In Leadership XVII – No Title
I started to write this time with nothing to think about or a message to send you….It is usually said that a writer or an amateur like me will face no such situation until the end of his or her career or life.
I feel that I am living in a world different from the one which others live in. I do not feel that I have something to give although I am supposed to be in my best condition. I am used to write only when I feel that there is something to write about or when I want to send a message for those who will be reading.
I lack something which would be considered a reason to push me to think of what should be said. I am sure that all of this is simply the work of life which is trying to steal from me what I consider the essence of who I am. It is true that I am still in search of an answer for the question of who I am and what I want to be but I am sure that I will find an answer exactly like the others.
Although I am living in this situation I am sure that i need this part of time in order to find what could become a reason to push me for a higher level. I do believe that nothing good would happen before passing through the worst of what would happen for me and you. The best thing which I and you can do is to accept and understand what we pass through even if it is good or bad. Only by accepting the worse of what would happen for us, we will be able to move on and find what we are in search of.
Do not be afraid that if you surrender for a certain incident you will be always living in it. The secret is to get out of what you are passing through in the right moment. If you feel anger then it would be your lucky day because your anger could be turned into a magical tool that increases your determination to a level which no one reached before. Live your anger, control it, and use it instead of letting it use you.
Study those who are around you and consider the younger and the older a good example which you can learn from. IF you learn from their mistakes then you will never make the same mistake. Try to lose yourself because you will only find it if you lose it.
Fear, suspicion, and confusion are only the other half of courage, confidence, and clearness. You may feel that it is not this time which you want to live or it is not the place where you want to live in but the truth is that these feelings could become the reasons which will lead you to change your time and place into the kinds which you want to exist in.
The most important thing which you must never lose is your freedom….even if someone succeeds to convince you that he controls your freedom, make sure to feel inside you that you are free. I almost lost my mind in the beginning when I once saw that I am kept in a room and a door separates me from doing what I am used to do but then I realized that freedom is something deeper and greater…it is a status which you decide whether to live in or not….The illusion of thinking that someone took your freedom may make you appreciate everything in your life.
Make sure to forgive because if you are not able to do so then I assure you that one day you will not be able to forgive yourself for something you would do. Forgiveness will give you a power which no one can defeat.
Do not waste your time and make sure to spend it while learning about what your mind says is important and not important. If you want to create then you must study not only those who lived in your time but also those who were the reason to discover who we are today. …Galileo is a good example.
Remember that one reason which may destroy your creativity is the search for the satisfaction of all the others…start by satisfying yourself with what you choose to believe in or serve then remember that you will never satisfy all the others but a part of them…
I am not sorry if you are not satisfied with what I write but I suggest that you should make your move and write something else because there are many who may agree with you.
If you go into a discussion with someone who wanted it only to argue with you then make sure to respect his/her right in saying what is said but try to make it as short as you can and remember to be always open minded to think about what was said but do not ever become the one who wants to argue for the pleasure of arguing…this is a waste of time.
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